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Writer's pictureGary Hewitt

Speak nice not spite

Greetings all and it's been a tad warm once more. Still, without further ado let's share the love and harmony with Marion, Anna, Vanya, Jo, Vanessa, Russell, Mary and Kevin. Huge respect and kudos to each one of you for liking, loving, commenting, sharing and of course reading in the first place.


Today I am drawn to the words we speak each day to each other and the intent behind them. Let's have a think about that for a moment. For most of us we do spout quite a bit of verbiage throughout the day and it's good to remember that those words we speak all have an energy behind them. Just like other energies then can be used in so many different ways and they are an archetype.



Let us ask ourselves whether we wish to use those supportive words such as hello, love, yes, live, peace, harmony and so many more. Then of course we have the more destructive/negative perceptions such as hate, spite, malice, no, die, despair and so forth. I'm sure you'll agree that we'd rather take those positive vibes but of course we will dalliance in all those words at some point, the question is where does our energy prefer to lie.



If you find yourself in anger and spewing forth those baser archetypes you may realise that you're not in a good place. You may also find that if you're using those words you are losing a bit of a battle. Let's imagine there's someone you don't like very much. You see them coming towards you and your animus rises and let's say beside you is a friend or colleague. This other party gets closer and you say "I hate him," with real venom. You have given your power to that other source.


How so I hear some of you ask? Well, if that individual has got under your skin so much that you're obliged to release those barbs then they have a hold on you. If instead you could recognise that individual and instead remain ambivalent or even send them positive energy then you place yourself in an area where you are in a position of equality and a higher vibration. Now that my friends, is a fine aspiration.



Of course these words can come out fast and are often a knee jerk reaction. This comes from programming of your environment, your associates, social pressure and a whole gamut of various sources. The best example is when you're driving and someone pulls out in front of you and causes you to take action. Now if you can honestly say, "Well, that was rather close but I wish you every joy and harmony in your day" then I salute you because I doubt I would and probably 99% of those reading this right now. You're more likely to curse an invective, a word of disapproval or even dance in road rage. We certainly don't want road rage and on the other points I'd say don't beat yourself up about it. You came from a fear perspective as you were wary of a crash.


So how do we cure ourselves of this programming though. It's not easy I grant you, especially with those reflex moments but not impossible. When you find yourself furnishing those lower archetypes , make yourself aware of the fact. Hopefully after a while you'll be that little bit more mindful and you tell yourself I won't be held by that energy and instead I'll look to transmute that energy to something that serves me. It may take a while but in time you can make a big difference to your candour and demeanour. It's one avenue of inviting a few rays of happiness your way.





Let's all switch up our words and intent. Remember everyone, keep reading.



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